
This is an interesting movie, but not a particularly good one. It was adapted from a novel by Michael Cunningham, and I bet the book is fantastic. It has a soap opera feel to it, with a great central character and a love triangle. That's good stuff.
In the opening of the movie we watch a young Bobby with his adored older brother, who introduces Bobby to male / female relationships, drugs, philosophy. When his brother dies tragically, Bobby seems to get stuck in time as a lost 9 year old, looking for family. When his mom and dad also die, he moves in with his friend, Jonathan, and adopts Jonathan's family as his own.
Jonathan and Bobby love each other and experiment sexually. They drift apart when Jonathan leaves for college and reconnect as adults. Jonathan is now openly gay, but Bobby is not gay, not straight. He cannot be alone, and seems to be in search of family rather than romantic love. Anyway, that's how I interpreted Bobby.
The acting is fantastic, especially by Colin Farrell as Bobby and Robin Wright as the third wheel.
Nevertheless, the tone of the movie is off. Colin Farrell does a great job of capturing Bobby's childish nature, but the tone is too lighthearted for the topic. Also, the motivations of these characters are not explained or resolved, which I found difficult here.
I would only rent if you love Michael Cunningham, Colin Farrell or Robin Wright.








